FOR many the old adage
that the kitchen is the heart and soul of the home rings true.
And for comic novelist
Nikesh Shukla, this is no exception but it wasn't until his mother
died that he realised quite how much.
"My mother passed
away in October 2010 after succumbing to lung cancer and the make up
of our home changed," he says.
"The house had
lost its centrifugal force and it felt very sterile.
"She was very much
the heart and soul of the home and the kitchen was always alive with
the sounds and smells of her cooking - lots of spices, garlic and
onions and so on. It was amazing.
"Food was what
tied our family together and when she died all that went and it was
incredibly sad.
"Relatives sent
over food which meant my dad, sister and I could eat. But eventually
of course that stopped so we had to fend for ourselves.
"We found some
food in the freezer which mum had made before she died. When we
defrosted it and started cooking it the kitchen immediately came to
life again," he adds.
"The scent and the
taste was incredible - it really felt like she was there. However, I
realised with a certain amount of horror that I didn't know how to
cook any of the dishes she had left us and had made for us over the
years and she now wasn't around to pass those recipes on.
"My sister and I
also realised that if we ate it we would taste her food for the last
time which was a devastating thought."
So Nikesh embarked on
an emotional journey of discovery in which he decided to teach
himself not only how to cook, but to learn how to cook the Gujarati
dishes that had meant so much to him when he was growing up and that
would remind him of his mother.
Phone calls to his
aunts followed and they relayed some of the recipes to him which he
copied down and then set about trying to recreate.
"As you can
imagine, there were loads of dishes to choose from and it was a
question of remembering what they were and working out those things I
missed the most," he says.
"Favourites were
definitely Khichdi which is peasant food, a simple rice dish with
lentils and Kudi which she used to make when I wasn't well.
"Once a year mum
made her variation of a Christmas dinner. It is roast tandoori
chicken and it is without doubt the best chicken I have ever had.
"I understand what
serious drug addiction must be like," he laughs.
"But I grew more
confident after a while and I began to recreate my mum's kitchen with
all the smells of the cumin and coriander and the sounds of things
frying - it was just fantastic."
The discovery of her
recipes also led to him finding out more about his beloved mother and
other members of his family.
"She couldn't even
boil an egg when she first got married and learned how to cook by
being on the phone to her mum," says Nikesh warmly.
"I also found out
my grandma worked in a battery factory in Keighley, West Yorkshire,
and wore a sari on underneath her boiler suit!"
But it was the recipes
which were the main focus and to preserve them Nikesh decided to
incorporate a selection into his novella The Time Machine.
And Nikesh is bringing
an interactive show based on the book to the stage as part of this
year's Alchemy Festival at the Southbank Centre with all proceeds
going to the Roy Castle Lung Foundation.
"It's very
exciting," he says. "I have done Alchemy before and it's
one of my favourite parts of the year. It's a great festival and
celebrates South Asian art without droning sitars," he chuckles.
"It tries to find
interesting projects that say something about South Asian art in a
contemporary way which is brilliant.
"I'm shit scared
though," he admits laughing. "I've been to lots of book
readings over the years but this is completely different to what I
normally do and I will feel totally naked," he adds chuckling.
"This will be more
emotive and interactive as there will be cooking live on stage,
including some of mum's favourite meals, and I will have readers
performing excerpts from the book.
"It will bring
back a lot of memories so I'm sure it will be quite emotional.
"But it's been an
important part of my healing to learn to cook," he says. "Mum
would probably think it needs more salt," he adds laughing.
Nikesh Shukla will be at Southbank Centre as part of the Alchemy Festival on Sunday, May 25. Tickets £15. Call the box office on 020 7960 4200.
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