SHE may have had a
reputation during her long, varied and entertaining career for being
brash and ballsy with a rapier wit but these days Ruby Wax comes
across as more thoughtful and serious, although the humour is
definitely still there.
In fact it is very much
in evidence when we chat ahead of her appearance at the Churchill
Theatre in Bromley to which she will be bringing her one woman show
Sane New World on September 21.
"I was just on
holiday," she begins. "I was in Africa and went on safari
which was lovely.
"It was a lot of
fun - in fact I was dragged back kicking and screaming," she
adds laughing.
And then without taking
a breath she tells me all about the show which she has been touring
around the country for the past few months.
Sane New World is her
unique look at the brain and is based on her critically acclaimed and
number one bestseller book of the same name which has been described
as a manual on how to survive the 21st century.
In both the book and
the show Ruby looks at the human brain, how it works, how we can
rewire our thinking to find calm in an increasingly frenetic world
and how to become the master not the slave of our own minds.
It all sounds pretty
deep and a real change from her career to date in which she spent
most of her time making us laugh.
Although she was
trained originally as a classical actress, it was with comedy that
her career took off and she became a successful stand up and writer,
including script editing the multi award winning BBC TV series
Absolutely Fabulous.
This led to a hugely
successful stint as an interviewer and during the 1980s and 90s she
was rarely off our TV screens, fronting shows such as The Full Wax,
Ruby Wax Meets…., and Wax On Wheels.
She was famed for her
acerbic wit, humour and sharp shooting, straight from the hip
interview style.
Her famous and
unsuspecting interviewees were putty in her hand thanks to her
fearless style where no question was off limits.
Her encounters were
legendary - who could forget for instance her hilarious meetings with
Imelda Marcos and the Duchess of York, Sarah Ferguson?
But it was while she
was promoting the charity Comic Relief that her battles with
depression came out and she unwittingly became the poster girl and
then campaigner for mental health and which subsequently led to her
career change.
Five years ago she did
a Master’s degree in mindfulness-based cognitive therapy at Oxford
University and hasn't looked back.
"It was really
interesting," she says. "It wasn't about depression and the
point of doing it wasn't to understand depression.
"I was just
fascinated by the whole subject of mindfulness and I had a chance to
do it and I jumped at it.
"It was two years
work and for me it has been the greatest, most interesting and
satisfying thing I have ever done. Ever."
The content of both the
degree and the book have formed the basis for the show which she says
audiences have been "very warm" about.
"I love it,"
she enthuses. "I do a book signing after each one and people
will come up to me and talk about their own experiences and give
feedback on what I've said. It's lovely."
And she insists far
from being dry, the show is laced with her own inimitable brand of
comedy.
"Oh it's
definitely funny - I'm hilarious!" she chuckles. "It would
be very dull if it wasn't. I don't preach at people, and I don't have
anecdotes but there is a lot of humour in it. I couldn't do it
otherwise.
"Besides, what
could be more interesting than how your mind works? What’s going on
upstairs? It's fascinating and I love it."
So infectiously
enthusiastic is she of her subject that she chatters 10 to the dozen
barely pausing for breath.
"It's about giving
information," she says. "Everyone wants to know how and why
their mind works. So I give a tour of the brain - what to do with it,
what's going on, why we're screwed and why we have these critical
voices.
"We are driven by
this idea that we are never good enough. We are not at our best when
we are knocking ourselves out with our own thinking and pushing
ourselves."
And she says technology
hasn't helped.
"Basically, we are
not equipped for this century," she says. "It’s too hard,
too fast, and too full of fear. We just don’t have the bandwidth so
I talk about how we're burning out and why stress is such a killer.
"Our brains can’t
take so much information in a world where we’re bombarded by bad
news and force-fed information. I can just about take in the weather
then I’m exhausted. You open a newspaper, everyone’s dead.
"The news is
heightening levels of fear. Now we can't tell if danger is behind us
and what the fear is.
"I am not saying
technology is bad because who's not happy to do on line shopping in
the morning but we need to take a step back and unplug.
"We have to
understand why we are in this state, where our brain is and find the
tipping point and not constantly try and keep up with the next guy."
Mindfulness she adds
has given her a practical way to self-regulate her feelings.
"I can hear early
the tip toes before I go under but sometimes it does take me by
surprise," she admits. "Back in the day I just got busy and
then ended up doing more work and more dinner parties.
"Now I can tell a
little bit when I need to watch it. But when you are in that state
you think something must be wrong with you.
"I want people to
leave knowing a bit more about what goes on upstairs but also that
they have laughed about it.
"People have told
me that the book was life changing - so buy it and come to the show.
It'll be great and you'll love it!"
Ruby Wax will be
performing Sane New World at Bromley’s Churchill Theatre on
September 21. Visit www.rubywax.net/tour for full listings.
Sane New World: Taming
the Mind by Ruby Wax is published in paperback by Hodder &
Stoughton, £8.99.
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